So you have met someone and like and get on with online and you have agreed to meet for your first date. What can you do to make the first impression and stand the best chance of going the second date? Well as I told in many posts that “ the First Impression Is the Last Impression”. Before going to date try to be relaxed, and then what to do for relax is the question. Do that makes you relax like listen to our favorite music, read books, do yoga and many more option are there.
When we meet someone for the first time, our nerves are usually on edges, our sense is heightened and we sometime lose our brain. Actually we don’t lose our brain, sometimes it goes to sleep mode. So this time is to wake up and try to fight the situation. Before going to date wash yourself, put on deodorant, brush your teeth and wear clean clothes. If you are taking your own car then wash it out.
First date allows for conversation but at the same time takes some of the focus off you so that you are not under pressure to talk incessantly. Ask your partner where they like to hangout when they go out with friends. Listen to her and then try to take to take her on same place, where you know that she feel comfortable and where two of you will have a great time.
So know your date is guaranteed to comfortable, which is important also. If she’s comfortable, she’ll have more fun, and if she’s having great fun, you will get a second date.
First thing is first… always be kind and respectful to her. Treat her with some type of respect and dignity. Don’t take her for a movie because when you need to talk more at that time you pass your most time in silence, so avoid movie. Ask her either for coffee or for any restaurant where you both can spend maximum time together and know each other very well.
Compliment her on her beauty. Remember that girls take whole day to ready for date. Try to tell her how great you think she looks, but do it tastefully. Never talk about yourself until you are asked a specific question. Girls hate that person who are self absorbed. Focus on her never blocks her out you must to listen what she’s saying.
“Listening is key to a successful date”
First few minutes are tough but you can do better by some points. Tell her that I’m happy to see you. Talk about how happy you are to see her, or how nice it is to have bumped in to her. If she’s wearing a red dress, you could mention the detail about red being your favorite color, or something along those lines (My personal experience its really work).
Whether you are attracted to the person or not, but try to be kind. It doesn’t cost you anything, but it will make a big difference to the other person’s enjoyment of the date.
Always make eye contact never look down, and more importantly never stare at her boobs. Always look in her eyes while talking to her. Never try first to break the eye contact. This will prove that you are the guy that she exactly wants.
Stop talking on tough issues like religion or politics. You would definitely be asking for trouble if you bring up such heated issues in your conversation. Don’t worry if there is a silence in the conversation. Don’t keep introducing new bits of conversation to keep the momentum going. Let her to be spark out and start new conversation.
Put away your phone because checking your phone during a date is one of the quickest ways to make someone feel uncomfortable. Either you are taking a call or a text, using your phone sends the signals that you aren’t more interested on dates.
Don’t be bore. The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing her attention on your own. It’s great when a girl shows affection when it’s the two of you, or shows she cares in a different way, like doing something nice.
Don’t let the evening end with a fizzle. Be intentional about saying goodbye, and initiate one of the following: a handshake, hug, or kiss. Don’t leave her standing there awkwardly at the end of the night.
“Life can be easy if you know how to keep things easy.”